Because of the upcoming move and everything else (and the fact that my due date was on Monday (13th)) I was tired of waiting for the baby to come. My midwife said she would break my water, so that is what we did. We schedule it for Tuesday morning. After multiple attempts and being unable to break it (I wanted to cry!) she had one more idea. Luckily she ended up being able to break my water. That happened at 11am (and I was dilated to a 4). She reminded me that labor still often takes 10-12 hours to start after the water breaks. I came home and did the usual routine (kids, lunch, etc) and we drove to the bank real quick to deposit some money. It was beautiful outside so the boys and I walked to the nearby library (about 0.05 miles away) and on our way back to the car (at 12:45) I started feeling super crampy & uncomfortable. We went home and I put the boys down for a nap and called my midwife at 1, telling her but not knowing how far apart, etc so she said to call back in 10 or so minutes. I got off the phone and called Kip to have our amazing friend, Bonnie, to pick him up at work and come get the kids. I called my midwife back and she said to meet her there at 1:30. It took longer to get the kids off on their way and so we didn't arrive at the birthing center until 2pm. I was already dilated to a 6. I labored in the awesome tub- which was wonderful to help me relax... Contractions were about 5 minutes apart. Before leaving the room, my midwife told Kip what to watch for so he knew when to go get her. Maybe 5 minutes later he had to go get her.
The planned on assistant didn't make it in time- my midwife had to call out down the hall & get a different lady who was already there (not a random lady!!) to assist instead. After 10 minutes of pushing, Grant was born! He was born just under an hour after arriving, at 2:57pm.
Kip helped deliver Grant and he put Grant on my chest. I held him for about 15-20 minutes, then Kip cut the cord. After that, Kip had skin-to-skin time for about 15 minutes while they took care of me (during which Grant marked his territory by marconiuming (pooping) on Kip). Grant was passed right back to me and Kip, Grant & I were able to just sit on the bed and relax while I fed him. Grant even decided to look around at us for about 15 minutes, too, even though he was only about 30 or so minutes old. He managed to marconium (poop) 3 times (twice on me-once on Kip) and even peed on my midwife within that 2 hour period. And even after that, he weighed in at 8.0lbs and he was 21" long. We went home to a peacefully quiet house a little after 5pm and our other boys stayed the night at our friends' house. We ate Chinese food for dinner and enjoyed some adjusting time before bringing in the boys the following afternoon. It worked out really well. We are so excited to have Grant here finally and the boys are loving him, as our we!
Oh, and Oliver gets so excited when Grant is awake and "moving his hands!" It is adorable to watch. We are so glad that so far, Oliver likes Grant too.
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