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Tuesday, December 29, 2009

Christmas in the Snow

We spent a week up in Utah in the snow for Christmas! It was a fantastic vacation full of rest and relaxation! Did I just rhyme?


My friend Tina. She's 5 months prego here but you can't even tell. No fair!


Shiloh misses his friends. Here's Clint. Each time we get together with any of Shiloh's friend's from Utah he is just bursting! I think he would've even foregone any gifts just to have some time with his buddies. Lucky for him, he got the best of both.


We attended the MD Diet party at "Bouncing off the Walls". Here's me and Shiloh going on the BIG slide.


The aftermath of the BIG slide. Yes, that's Shiloh underneath me.


My boys.


Oh the places we'll go with Dad as our horsepower!


Have you seen anything so cute in your whole life?


Eliza's uncle (only 8 years old) kept saying, "I can't make a snow ball, it's too hard." Eliza turned around and replied (showing him the ball). "Look! It's not hard. You just do this!"


This is Ezra's first experience with snow. It's amazing that he can still look so devious! :)


Eliza loves her Grandma so much! She spent a many happy moments decorating the tree and hanging stockings with her. Grandma may have passed her love of decorating on to this one!


Ezra is a shoe-in for a video game addict. Which is why we don't let him play any. :)


Four generations! Ashlyn, Eliza, Me, Grandma (Shiloh's mom), and Great-Grandma (Shiloh's grandma).


The night before Christmas we have a tradition to open one present (new jammies) and read the Christmas story. I love that Eliza is old enough to understand the story. She and I talked a lot about what Christmas is and why we celebrate. She just soaked it all up! In fact, all my worrying about Santa were really unfounded. Since I didn't talk about him much, she didn't talk about him much. She really does associate Christmas with Christ and it is really sweet. Although I must say, she loves all the festivities that go along with it--decorations, the tree, presents, food, and family! And, I'd have to agree. :)


Christmas morning. I know it looks like Eliza is mad in this picture, I can't remember what was bothering her, but after we got upstairs and she remembered that it was Christmas morning and there was a large pile of presents under the tree, she was all smiles! (Yes, she had forgotten... How can you forget Christmas morning?? Apparently I didn't give this part of Christmas enough hype or something??)


Ashlyn's first Christmas. Isn't she just a cute little ball of joy?

Monday, December 14, 2009

My little darlings

It has been very difficult to get all three to smile that the same time lately. How hard can this be? Well, I have several more of these pictures and I'm not pleased with any of them. Sigh. At least I have captured Ezra's personality. ;)

Friday, December 11, 2009

Okay, I know this is completely "Bah humbug" of me, but I don't teach my kids about Santa. Really. I have never given them a gift "From Santa" and I don't intend to pretend each Christmas that Santa comes down our non-existent chimney to give them gifts. To me, Santa is a wonderful example of a jolly fellow who loved to give and this is what I plan to teach my children: That Santa was a giving person and so we should admire his example and give to others as well. I suppose there is a part of me that resents Santa a little for taking the spotlight away from the Savior. Perhaps this is why I refuse to enable the Santa Propaganda. Sigh. Okay, I am not as angry as I just sounded. In fact, my attitude is really more apathy than anything else. I have no problem with other people who choose to teach about Santa and I'm not going to ruin it for any of the other kids who believe in him.

That said, somehow my 4-yr old daughter believes in Santa. She told me that he was going to come to Grandma's house (since that is where we are going for Christmas) and he would have a great big bag and leave presents for her. I just sort of looked at her after she told me that, not knowing what to say. Do I ruin it for her because of my own "issues"? Or allow her to believe? For the time being, I just sort of said, "Oh yeah?" So this is something I am going to have to ponder further. Until I make a good plan, I think I'll let her go on believing. Still, I don't plan on getting her presents from Santa (I'll let Grandma take care of that). :)

Wednesday, December 9, 2009

Sunday, December 6, 2009

Junie B Jones!



Yesterday we took a trip to the Theatre!  Eliza's friend is a fan of Junie B books and so Eliza has gotten into them as well.  It just so happened that the local Theatre was putting on a show called Junie B in Jingle Bells Batman Smells so we decided to make it a girls night!  I'd never been to a kids play before this and I was quite delighted.  It was quite funny and the Junie B character was played just as I imagine her when I read Eliza the books.  She is a VERY silly 1st Grader.  Eliza loved the play and looked at me with that look of, "I love you so much Mom" as the play ended and joy and laughter flooded the auditorium.  I think I'd do pretty much any legal thing for that look so it was well worth it.

Thursday, December 3, 2009

Bathtime

I decided to try an experiment. Ashlyn technically can't sit-up yet, so Eliza had to hold her slippery body still while I took these pictures (no easy task mind you). Looking at these pictures a little closer, I started humming to myself, "One of these things is not like the other..." What a chunky, white baby!

Tuesday, December 1, 2009

Just finished these ballerina silhouettes for Eliza & Ashlyn's room. They are oil on canvas. I actually really enjoyed doing these. It took me awhile between sessions so they are several months in the making, but the overall time actually painting was probably 3-4 hours. I am really loving oils!



Friday, November 20, 2009

Vaccinations: A Clearer Perspective


Ashlyn's 4-month check up was today and I asked my doctor about his thoughts about vaccines. I will probably offend someone here, but I just had to post my new-found perspective on vaccinations. I have always been pro-vaccine. I guess I never really thought about it much to be quite honest. I just thought: dangerous illness, there's a preventative method, get preventative method. So I've done the full vaccination schedule with both of my older children. Recently, I've noticed a rise in people who aren't doing vaccinations and my thoughts were, "Why would anyone not vaccinate their kids?" Even my doctor said that those who do not vaccinate their kids who come to his clinic quite often don't have an express reason for it, nor do they share any real medical reasons besides they just don't believe in it. What?? I have a hard time with that. Why would you decide to go against the grain--and expose your child to life-threatening illness--without conclusive evidence it's the right thing to do? So I started to do some digging. I am a researcher--always have been. When I have a question, I just go find the answer.

So I spent the better part of my week looking into vaccination articles and medical reports online. Here's a summary of what I found:

1. People fear the ingredients in vaccines and therefore do not vaccinate. In fact, many feel they can make their children immune to diseases through homeopathy and/or basic diet and nutrition.
2. The main ingredients that rub people wrong are: Mercury (Thimerosal) and Aluminum (in the form of salts that act as an adjuvant to get the immune system working when you get a vaccine so that it'll do it's job).

After hours and hours of research here is my reaction:

1. I believe in the adage "You are what you Eat." There is a big part of my opinion that leans towards eating healthy, getting your vitamins and exercise and keep you immune system tip-top shape if you want to horde off being sick. Growing up we hardly ever took medications for anything, and I tend towards that route now. The body is absolutely amazing and there are definitely healthy foods and herbs on the earth to make sure it can "run and not be weary and walk and not faint." That said, I also feel there is a place for science and medicine in addition to the food and herbs. I don't feel there is some major conspiracy theory going on with the pharmaceutical companies wanting to sell their drugs and so they've found ways to keep everyone sick. While I think that there are way too many drugs out there and way to many people dependent on them, there are many, many helpful drugs out there. I have to admit that Percuset was super nice to have for my pain control after my C-section. Moderation in all things is good, and I think that all of us need to be wise in our passion towards any one end of the spectrum here. Remember the baby who died because that stupid, granola-couple only fed it soy milk??? That is the kind of blind ignorance that burns me. If you want to eat organic and be homeopathic DO IT! But don't just do it because it's the "in" thing or because you grew up that way. Do it because you've done your homework and found out that you prefer that type of lifestyle. Anyway, in relation to all that ranting, the point I am coming to now is that I'm not convinced homeopathics and healthy eating alone can prevent major illnesses. Alternative medicines have definitely got their merit, but so far I don't see conclusive evidence that they can prevent the illnesses that we get vaccines for such as polio. Therefore, in my eyes there is still a need for vaccinations and I want to get my kids vaccinated.

2. That leads me to the concerns with Mercury and Aluminum. Mercury is not found in any infant vaccines anymore except for the optional flu and H1N1 vaccines. These are optional and I never get these for me or my kids anyway. It started out that I didn't get them out of laziness, but now I really feel like the flu is something we can manage through nursing our immune systems. I haven't had the flu in years and my kids have never had it.

Okay on to the the stickiness of aluminum. Here is where some of my perspective began to change. I am a cautious person and after all my research I wasn't able to find conclusive evidence on either side of the fence regarding people's concerns about this metal. First of all, aluminum is the most common metal found in nature. We are CONSTANTLY exposed to it in our water, food, and hygiene products. A healthy adult expels about 98% of the aluminum that comes into their system thanks to healthy kidneys. There haven't been many studies done on children and aluminum and there is a serious lack of research on the direct effects of aluminum in vaccines. There is some recommendations out there that say that the controlled, allowable amount of 0.85 mg aluminum in vaccines is too high ( Dr. Bob Sears wrote a pretty in-depth book about this and other topics regarding vaccines). Thus, they recommend splitting up the vaccines so that the baby isn't exposed to so much aluminum at the same time. And after looking into it, that's the only thing that makes sense in my mind. This lady made a good argument for the safety of aluminum. I liked that. But then there are others with severe research the other way. So, here's my conclusion: I believe in vaccines for the safety for of my child. I believe there isn't enough research done on aluminum in vaccines, therefore, I will be more cautious about it and therefore reduce the risk of aluminum toxicity and/or neurological damage to my child's brain.

So, when I went to the doctor today for Ashlyn's 4-mo check up, I asked them to split up the vaccines so that she's not getting all the aluminum at once and her body has a chance to expel it. I'll go back in a couple weeks for the remaining shots. Sigh. I feel good about that.

Oh, and this post had some good info on amounts of aluminum in varying brands. And this list was helpful for the mercury aspect but also just knowing what the brands are for each vaccine.

Hope I didn't make anyone feel bad about their own vaccine choices. Just sharing my new opinion. My opinion is quite often maleable until I see vast research to conclude one way or the other. (Except, of course, in matters moral; then it's more of a matter of what the Spirit tells me is true, rather than research.)

Tuesday, November 17, 2009

Adventures in Ezra

Thought I'd document some more fun times with my two year old.

The other night I decided we'd have breakfast for dinner since my husband wasn't going to be home until late (he's not a fan). So my little Ezra dutifully went and got his favorite aspect of breakfast for dinner: Syrup. But, instead of putting it on the table, he sneaked it to the bathroom and started attempting to eat it by itself. This is what I found a few minutes later:
This is something that happened a few weeks ago but never blogged about. As you can see, it is still in freshly-made condition so there was no rush on that. Remember the Sharpie Incident on my tile and bathroom? Yes, well, here is some more of his creative splendor on my carpet. Bless him for sharing the love of permanent marker.

Wednesday, November 11, 2009

The Zoo with 5 under 5

Shiloh and I took a venture to the local zoo this past weekend with our three kiddos and two of their best friends. The oldest of the 5 just turned 5 and the youngest was obviously Ashlyn. It may sound like a lot of work, but I felt oddly positive and chipper about the whole excursion. It was a perfect (and busy) day in the land of all the animals. The weather was perfectly sunny and crisp. I was well rested. And although the kids were practically bursting at the seems with excitement, they all maintained respectful and manageable behavior. All-in-all it was an extremely relaxing venture and one of my fave experiences at the zoo. We had them all choose an animal they really wanted to see and then those were the animals we saw. In fact, that's really all the time we had anyway. That's one of the nice things about having a zoo pass: no guilt. We spent a couple hours there and then left. Gone are the days of trying to "fit it all in" by spending the entire day walking around watching animals--or the lack thereof, these animals are often hiding or being "serviced"--carrying half the kitchen with you because someone is always hungry or thirsty, and feeling short-tempered and frazzled by the time the last child is buckled in their carseat to go home. Ah yes, I am sold on the annual zoo pass. Anyway, infomercial done. Here are some of my pics:Ezra found a friend. He groomed him like every friend should.


Hey, they should all be able to pose for 2 seconds for a pic right? Right???


Apparently the javelinas were stinky.


I see some milk maids in the making here.


Cheese!


BFF!


"Wait up girls!"


The monkeys. No really, there are monkeys in this picture.



The elephants. Oh, you can't see them? Neither could we.



The koi fish.


Lizzy the Elephant.



Pay no attention to their facial expressions here. Kids often look terrified when they are having fun.


There's the smiles.



Say "CHEESE!" Okay, no, look this way boys! Say, "Cheese!" DEEP BREATH. Whatever.



They were perfectly safe up there. Promise. The only one who got hurt was me trying do get them down and scratching my funny bone. No worries. I'm fine.