1.31.2008

Surprise 30th Birthday Trip

My sweet husband turned 30 a couple weeks ago. I wanted him to feel truly celebrated, so I planned a surprise getaway for him. Ryan didn't even know we were leaving town until Wednesday night, and we were leaving Friday morning. We normally do road trips to celebrate our birthdays and our anniversary, so that's what he figured we were doing.

Anyway, after I got off work on Thursday night, we dropped Wally off at our dear friends, the Giddens's house. We headed home and started packing. This was tricky since Ryan didn't know what to pack, and I didn't want to tell him and give away our destination.

So we packed as best as we could and then headed to bed. I had told Ryan that if possible I wanted to get a really early start in the morning. Well, at 5:45 on Friday morning, I got out of bed and into the shower. Sweet Ryan didn't understand why we had to leave so early, but he willingly got ready and helped me get our suitcase closed. Right about 6:30, which is when I said I wanted to try and leave by, Ryan asked if he should put our luggage in the car. I told him yes and then ran to our front window. I saw that Trent was waiting for us outside, and then I ran back to the garage, where Ryan was loading the car, and opened the garage door. Ryan was so confused that there were headlights shining into our garage. As soon as the door was up, we saw Trent, dressed in a tux, mind you, getting out of his car and coming to take our luggage to his. He made such an excellent chauffer.

When we got settled in the back seat of the car, Trent turned on some classical music "to prepare us for our trip" and then he handed Ryan a book entitled "Ireland". It was pretty funny. At this point, Ryan knew we were flying somewhere but had no idea where.

Trent dropped us off at the Louisville airport, and I got us checked in while Ryan stood off to the side. We got to our gate, and Ryan accidentally saw the destination said Las Vegas. He was trying to be so sweet and ask if that was where we were going. It was so funny watching him because I knew he had no desire to go to Las Vegas. I just played it off and didn't really answer him. That flight was on its way to Las Vegas, but we got off in Chicago, where we had a layover.

As we waited for our next flight, I started giving Ryan hints about where we were going. You all know what a brilliant kid Ryan is, so I had to give him some really obscure hints. Hint #1: Rack of Lamb. Ryan thought about this for awhile but wasn't coming up with much, so I gave him another hint. Hint #2: Clint Eastwood. Again Ryan thought, but wasn't figuring it out. Hint #3: Gooey. I told him the last hint would be the most obvious. These hints I'm sure seem more obscure to most people, but we had talked about going to this destination, so it made a little more sense to us. Ryan eventually figured out our destination--Carmel, California!! For those of you are still trying to figure out my crazy hints, Carmel backwards is lem rac (rack of lamb), Clint Eastwood used to be the mayor of Carmel, and carmel is of course gooey.

Anyway, Ryan had so many questions to sort through before he finally showed how excited he was. It was pretty cute watching him work out everything in his head--I could totally see those wheels spinning.

Our flight to San Francisco, got delayed, but we eventually got there. We rented a car to drive down to Carmel, and we even got a FREE upgrade to a convertible! Yea! We were so excited! It was the middle of January, but it's warmer there, so we were able to drive around all weekend with the top down and the heater on.

On our way out of SF, we stopped at In 'n Out Burger for a late lunch. Neither of us had eaten it, but our friend, Todd, raves about it. It was a two hour drive to Carmel, so it was dark by the time we got there. We got settled into our room, went and had dinner and then walked around the town a little.

Let me pause here to say that we have heard about this little town since before we got married. Several people saying it's their favorite place to go. It's a small town on the coast of California. It's very non-commercialized. No chain restaurants or hotels. It is the cutest town I've ever seen. The buildings are all so beautiful, and there are flowers everywhere year-round.

I was somewhat worried about taking Ryan to Carmel in January because that's when they get most of their rain. There was some huge storm system that went through California the whole week before we got there and ended the night before we arrived. In Carmel, they had 80-100 mph winds and the streets were flooded by the ocean. All this to say, that it was beautiful and sunny the entire time we were there. Thank you, God!

On Saturday morning, we had breakfast at this incredible little restaurant. They had the best raspberry pancakes ever! We then walked down to the beach and hung out there for awhile. It was breathtaking! Everything was so beautiful. Off to our right, you could see the 18th hole of Pebble Beach Golf Course. Carmel is extremely dog-friendly, so there were dogs running all over the beach--most without leashes. The dogs were so well-behaved. They fetched balls and frisbees out of the ocean. I just can't describe how wonderful it was just sitting there taking it all in.

We then drove the 17-mile scenic drive through 3 nearby golf courses, including Pebble Beach. We were constantly stopping to take pictures because it was all so beautiful. As I'm typing this, I'm remembering the sound of the waves rolling in, smelling the saltwater and the flowers. It was so peaceful!

We finished our drive and grabbed a late lunch at a local restaurant. Most of the restaurants have seating outside because the weather there is so mild all year. They have overhead heaters for the winter. We then headed over to the Carmel Mission to look around. The sun was starting to go down, so after taking several pictures, we drove back to the beach to watch the sunset. We were just a few minutes too late, but we loved watching the ocean again.

That night, we drove into Monterey, which is only about 5-10 minutes away and had Chipotle for dinner. This may seem like a strange choice, but we only get to eat Chipotle 2 or 3 times a year since there's not one in Louisville.

The next morning, Sunday, January 13, was Ryan's 30th birthday! We went and got some breakfast at another local restaurant. The food wasn't quite as good as the day before, but the presentation of the food was so impressive that I had to take a picture.

We then walked down to the beach again. We even walked along the water, but my goodness, when those waves rolled over our feet, it was so cold! We then walked around town, looking at some of the little shops. They were all so cute!

We then got in our red convertible and drove farther down the coast. We stopped at the Bixby bridge, which is where lots of car commercials are filmed. Every time we turned a bend, I was amazed at the beauty of what was on the other side. My words are so insufficient to describe this place. Not to mention, that as we're driving, the smell of the forest around us was amazing! So fresh! We got back to Carmel just in time to watch the sunset on the beach. Again, there aren't words to describe the beauty of God's creativity, and unfortunately, pictures just don't do it justice.

For dinner that night, we at at P.F. Chang's. Some friends of ours, the Crums, recently ate there for Jenny's birthday, and it seems like we all ate the same heavenly cake--the Great Wall of Chocolate--seven layers of decadent chocolate cake surrounded by berries and a raspberry sauce. YUM!!

We headed back to our room for the night, where Ryan opened his birthday presents. It was a great day, and I'm so incredibly thankful for the 30 years that God has blessed Ryan with and that God has chosen to bless me with knowing Ryan for almost 10 of those 30 years!

On Monday morning, we headed back to the same place that we did on Saturday morning for breakfast. We were both hoping to get the raspberry pancakes this time, but bummer, they were out of raspberries! We were so sad because we'd really been looking forward to it, but I got strawberry, and Ryan got blueberry. Both were still pretty good. We walked around town a little bit more, and then we packed up our car and headed back up the California coast. Our waiter on Sunday night mentioned that Santa Cruz was a fun place to go, so we stopped by there on our way back to San Francisco. They have a boardwalk, there, but apparently nothing happens there during the middle of a weekday in winter. Oh well!

When we got to SF, we went to Boudine's at Fisherman's Wharf. It's this great little bistro with this amazing sourdough bread. Their chili in a breadbowl is phenomenal. We then drove over to Union Square, which is just this huge shopping area. We walked around there until we were able to meet up with the Millers. We got to know Jeff, Heather, Rayah and Ashlyn shortly after we moved to Louisville. While Ryan was starting his first semester at Southern, Jeff was finishing his last. Anyway, they graduated a few months after we met them and they headed back home to the San Francisco area, where Jeff is a pastor. Jeff and Heather showed us around SF some, but it was getting dark, so we weren't able to see much. When then went and ate dinner, picked up Rayah and Ashlyn and then headed back to their house. Ryan and I were so humbled by their hospitality. We were all pretty tired, so we headed to bed not too long after we got home.

We all had breakfast together the next morning before all going our separate ways--Jeff to work, Rayah to school and us to the airport. Our time with the Millers was brief, but we were so blessed to get to spend some time with them.

Thank you to Trent, Tory and Kedra and Jeff and Heather for everything you did to make this such a memorable trip for us! Praise the Lord for sweet friends who go out of their way to help someone out!

Was Blind, but Now I See

Ok, so I wasn't blind, but my vision was pretty bad without correction, and after having LASIK yesterday, I can see!!

Before my surgery--wearing my glasses for the last time

Ryan and I arrived at the surgery center yesterday afternoon at 1:30. We were immediately taken back into the area just outside of the operating room. As soon as I got there, one of the ladies started putting drops in my eyes. I swear, I must have at least 20 drops put in each eye by the time it was all said and done. Anyway, I was given some post-operative instructions and then was given a packet of paper to look through--it was a list of different artists and albums. She told me I could pick any CD off the list to listen to during my surgery. I finally chose Michael W. Smith's worship album. I haven never heard this album, nor am I terribly familiar with Michael W. Smith, but the only other Christian artist listed was Steven Curtis Chapman.

So, they finish prepping me for surgery, and I sat and waited for them to finish with the guy ahead of me. He came out, and it was my turn. Dr. Bennett made some markings on my eyes before I went into the OR, and then I headed in. I took one last look at my blurry husband, knowing the next time I saw him he would be a lot clearer.

I laid down on the table, and they got started. I was able to watch LASIK being performed quite a bit while I was in optometry school, so I had a pretty good idea of what to expect. Dr. Bennett was great at letting me know what I should feel and see at each point in the surgery. It was nice knowing that Ryan was in the room right next to me, watching everything they were doing on the monitors.

The procedure went by pretty quickly. I can't remember what song was playing when they were doing my right eye, but I know that during my left eye, "Open the Eyes of My Heart" was playing. For those who aren't familiar with this song, here are the lyrics:

Open the eyes of my heart, Lord
Open the eyes of my heart
I want to see You
I want to see You

Open the eyes of my heart, Lord
Open the eyes of my heart
I want to see You
I want to see You

To see You high and lifted up
Shinin' in the light of Your glory
Pour out Your power and love
As we sing holy, holy, holy

Open the eyes of my heart, Lord
Open the eyes of my heart
I want to see You
I want to see You

Open the eyes of my heart, Lord
Open the eyes of my heart
I want to see You
I want to see You

To see You high and lifted up
Shinin' in the light of Your glory
Pour out Your power and love
As we sing holy, holy, holy

(Repeat two more times)

Holy, holy, holy
We cry holy, holy, holy
You are holy, holy, holy
I want to see you

Holy, holy, holy
Holy, holy, holy
You are holy, holy, holy
I want to see you

Holy, holy, holy
Holy, holy, holy
Holy, holy, holy,
I want to see you


Anyway, I thought it was pretty ironic. My surgery was over after about 17 minutes, and then I was given some cool sunglasses and taken out to the waiting room to rest for about 30 minutes. It was incredible how much better I could already see, even though my eyes had just been operated on.

We were then called back in, and Dr. Bennett took another look at my eyes to make sure my flaps looked ok. He said everything went perfect and looked perfect. I slept most of the day, but by last night, I was able to see the TV without any correction.

Wearing my cool sunglasses after LASIK

Look--no glasses or contacts!

Resting with Wally (Notice my cool safety goggles)

I had my first post-op appointment first thing this morning, and my right eye was seeing 20/15 (which is better than 20/20), and my left eye was 20/20. My vision will just continue to get better as my eyes heal.

1.30.2008

LASIK

Because I haven't blogged much lately, most of you don't know that I'm having LASIK today. After about 15 years of wearing contacts and glasses, I should be able to see without any correction!

LASIK stands for Laser-Assisted In Situ Keratomileusis and is a procedure that permanently changes the shape of the cornea, the clear covering of the front of the eye, using an excimer laser. A knife, called a microkeratome, is used to cut a flap in the cornea. A hinge is left at one end of this flap. The flap is folded back revealing the stroma, the middlesection of the cornea. Pulses from a computer-controlled laser vaporize a portion of the stroma and the flap is replaced. No stitches are needed--the corneal flap re-adheres to the cornea by itself.

Click here to see a diagram of each step in the procedure.

My surgery is at 1:30 this afternoon, so in just a few short hours, I should be able to see pretty well without my glasses. What's even better is that I get to have it done for FREE!! Praise the Lord for the power of technology!

1.24.2008

Why Trucks are Cool

We don't own a truck, nor would I particularly want to own a truck, but I have learned that there are several cool things about them.

About two months ago, I rear-ended a truck. It was totally my fault--just not paying attention, and praise the Lord that no one was hurt. Anyway, I got out of my car and immediately checked to see what damage was done to the truck I hit. Again, praise the Lord because there was seriously not a scratch on the truck. I couldn't believe it, especially when I turned around and saw that my car looked like this:



Anyway, our car ran just fine (aside from the missing headlight and turn signal), so we continued to drive it. Over Christmas we didn't drive it much because we only needed one car, so about a week later, we went to drive our poor car, and it wouldn't start. We were reluctant to pop the hood to jump it because we figured it wouldn't go back down. We had only gotten one estimate to fix it (which incidentally was more than the car is worth). We knew we needed to take it to get another estimate, but things have been really busy lately so we've just been sharing our one working car.

We jumped our car this morning and were so excited that the hood actually did go back down. We took it in to get another estimate, which was still more than we wanted to put in the car. We then headed to Walmart to see about getting another battery. While we were there, the attendant mentioned that it might be the alternator that was bad and therefore not allowing the battery to stay charged. They ran some tests as we waited to find out the verdict. We also said a little prayer while we waited that it if it was God's will that it would just be the battery that needed to be replaced. We were so excited to hear that the alternator was fine. We left there with a new battery and a car that actually runs. Thank you, God, for this answered prayer!

The car is still pretty sad, but it's such a good reminder to keep things in perspective. We are incredibly blessed to have not only one, but two cars that run. Who cares how ugly it is?! It's also a reminder to me to be more concerned about the internal beauty of a person, as opposed to the external. Proverbs 31:30 says, "Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised." Let us be ever aware of our need for God. This world will fade away, just like the beauty of a person, a car, a flower, but God is constant.

Psalm 103:15-19
As for man, his days are like grass;
he flourishes like a flower of the field;
for the wind passes over it, and it is gone,
and its place knows it no more.
But the steadfast love of the LORD is from everlasting to everlasting on those who fear him,
and his righteousness to children’s children,
to those who keep his covenant
and remember to do his commandments.
The LORD has established his throne in the heavens,
and his kingdom rules over all.

Christmas

Ok, so once again I'm behind on my blogging, but hey, better late than never, right!?

Christmas this year was at our house. We've never had a house (or a place big enough to hold a family Christmas), so this year was a special one.

Ryan's mom flew into town December 21. We spent the first several days of her trip shopping and wrapping. After I got off of work on Christmas Eve (sidenote- you'd be surprised at how many people came in to get their eyes checked on Christmas Eve--I guess not everyone waits until the last minute to finish shopping like I do), we went to the Christmas Eve service at church. We then headed home for our array of appetizers: chips and queso (a tradition I grew up with) as well as, crackers, cheese and cream cheese covered in strawberry preserves. It was so good!

On Christmas morning, Ryan and I exchanged our presents to one another, as well as opened our stockings with Ryan's mom. Ryan had a prepared a Bible study for us to go through together to help turn our minds to the reason we celebrate--the birth of Jesus Christ our Lord.

We then went to see the movie, Enchanted. I was skeptical about it, but we all really enjoyed it. Brandon, Jill, Joshua and Aby drove up from Nashville that night and arrived in time for the lavish dinner that Ryan worked so hard to prepare. We all sat down to an elaborate feast of Honeybaked ham, turkey, sweet potato casserole, green bean casserole, roasted potatoes, pistachio pudding and of course, Sister Schubert's dinner rolls. I gained five pounds just now thinking about it.

Anyway, after the kids went to bed, we all played Mexican Train (dominoes).

The next morning, we woke up, had an apple sausage casserole for breakfast and then opened our Christmas presents. Such sweet memories of watching everyone open presents. A personal favorite of mine was watching Jill open her "moon bag", which was a makeshift present until her real gift arrived. Jill, you're so sweet and such a good sport!

We then headed up to our church lawn to play some Bocce ball. Unfortunately, our game was cut short due to all of the mud on the ground. After making a trip to Indiana for a Mexican lunch, we drove back home. Brandon, Jill, Joshua, Aby and Mom all packed their things and loaded in the car to head back to Nashville. It was sad that they were only able to stay for such a short time, but we were just thankful to see them at all.

Ryan's mom stayed with Brandon and Jill for about a week, and then we met them in Bowling Green to pick her up. Her flight out was the next day, so we didn't get more much time together, but our time was sweet nonetheless.