Moving Before Surgery
In December 2014 Aili had a lung scan and echo that were showing that she needed surgery soon. The last time she had had anything done to her heart was in May 2013 (a cath, with balooning, in California). Her cardiologist thought she would need surgery late March, early April. So that is what we planned on. They send all of Aili's information over to Dr. Hanley to be scheduled for surgery. Aili ended up being scheduled for May 6th which was a little concerning because that was further out than we anticipated. We know Dr. Hanley is in serious demand though so you take what you can get.
We had been thinking about possibly moving at this same time. Selling our condo and buying a house. But with surgery coming up so soon we didn't think it was possible. But then when the surgery ended up being in May be decided to just hurry and do it. And hope we could be into a new place before surgery. If not we would just live with my parents during that time. We put our condo up for sale the very beginning of February. We had a lot of showings and it as under contract within 2 weeks. We were really excited. As soon as it was under contract we started our house hunt. My ideal house was located along the Murdock canal trail anywhere from Lindon to Cedar Hills. As we started looking there really wasn't anything we liked or that was in our price range through that area. Chris and our real estate agent kept telling me that I should widen my search into Lehi. So we looked in Lehi, and there was some nice houses, but none of them made me excited. I didn't want to live there, I knew it, and I knew I would like it.
I checked Utahrealestate.com constantly. Our agent sent us new listings every morning. We were looking at houses multiple times during the week. I also started checking KSL to see any houses for sale by owner. We started getting worried that there was no hope of finding and moving into a house before Aili's surgery. Which wasn't ideal, but would just have to be.
One night I found a couple of houses on KSL that were in my ideal location. One of them was in Lindon right above the Murdock trail and one was in PG right above the Murdock trail. The one in PG I was so excited for. From the pictures it looked really promising. I was so afraid I would go and hate it, because it was in such a perfect location. Our agent set up times on Saturday to see these two properties along with a few others in various locations. We saw the one in Lindon first. SO disappointing. Actually it was disgusting. It wasn't the perfect house anyway, but it was so filthy I didn't even look at all of the house. I was done looking after just seeing the first floor. Our next stop was the PG house. Literally the most perfect location....my ideal location. I was so nervous I would hate it because I wanted to love it so much. Another family was just leaving from looking at it as we arrived. We went into the backyard first. It had a cute patio, massive cement pad with basketball hoop, a little play house with swings, and a slide. Liking it so far. Then we walked through the main floor, the basement, and then the upstairs. Upstairs in the yellow room I told Chris and our agent, "I want this house, this is our house." Over and over I said, "I want this house." We came downstairs, and talked to the owner a little. She talked about how they love the location and their family has loved the house. She didn't need to convince me. It was the perfect location! I wanted this house. It wasn't the biggest, newest, our fanciest house we had seen, but it was our house. It was perfect for us, for what we needed right now. We went to see one more house in American Fork after. Basically it was just a meet up point to discuss putting on offer on the PG house. We scrapped the rest of the houses planned for the day, because we just wanted the PG house. I looked at our agent as we were getting in our cars and I said, "Brain DO NOT let someone steal this house from us." That is how much I wanted the house.
Our agent was awesome. He went straight back to the office pulled some comparables to look at, and we wrote up the offer. The owners of the house were going out of down later that afternoon. So he drove over to the house ASAP to present the offer to them. That night our agent had given us some box tickets to a Jazz game. It was intense waiting to hear if they would accept our offer. As soon as we got there our agent said, "I have some good news, they came back with a counter offer." We discussed it and sent another counter offer back. After the game we were on and off the phone with our agent, and he was on and off the phone with the sellers, trying to nail down this deal. Right up until midnight it was going back and forth, but a contract was signed! We were so excited and relieved! Our agent really took my, "DO NOT let someone steal this house from us," seriously, and I'm so glad he did. The one thing we had working for us is that the family who owned the house was building a new house right in the same ward and neighborhood so they wanted some nice people to move into their old house. I think that they liked us and thought we were a good family to take over the house they had built memories in. I honestly don't think the deal would have been made that night if they hadn't meet us and liked us. Hopefully they are still happy they let us buy their house. :)
After an extension to the contract on the sale of our new house and just a day before the buyer on our condo would lose their earnest money, she backed out of buying our condo. It had been under contract for a whole month! Not because she didn't want it, but because she was unwise and messed up her credit after signing the contract. Really stupid move, she was upset and we were upset. I had already packed half of our house and it was in storage. We were ready to move our tand live with my parents until we could move into our new house. Now we had to relist the condo and hope that we could still by the house even if our condo wasn't sold. It was super stressful.
After looking everything over we could own both properites just fine, so we moved forward with everything, still hoping we could get the condo sold quickly so we didn't have two mortgages.
The close date on the new house was April 22nd just 8 days before we were suppose to fly to California for Aili's surgery. That was a little stressful but we were glad that we could at least be moved in and have a house before we had to leave.
Surgery is Moved Back
Among all the selling, buying, moving drama, we get a call that the surgery has to be moved back 2 days. Not a big deal. It actually worked out better for us because then we would have two weekends we could move and get settled.
I can't remember when we got the news of all this, it just seemed like it was one jumbled mess one thing after another. But our condo was put under contract a second time, and then the buyer backed out just a day later.
Then we get another call from Dr. Hanley's scheduler that the surgery has to be moved back again, not to 2 days, not a week or even two. But almost 11 weeks! 2 and a half monthes! I guess they had a bunch of emergency surgeries that needed to be done and Dr. Hanley felt that Aili was doing well enough to be pushed back. Even though we fully understood that, it was still difficult. We were already nervous that the surgery was in May and not March and now it was going to be in July.
We had Aili do another lung scan and echo just to make sure that she would indeed be okay waiting until July. The doctor felt like everything would be fine. So even though I cried and was so frustrated because it just seemed like nothing was working out it really ended up probably being better so that we had plenty of time to move and be settled before surgery.
New House and Condo Close
Our condo was then under contract for a 3rd time. By this time we can't even be excited for it because they can back out at pretty much anytime, without any consequences, and that just seems so ridiculous to me. What the heck is the point of the contract?! The sale of the condo was scheduled to close a few weeks after the close of the house. Just days before the close on our new house the underwriter on the loan got back to us and told us that we needed to have 6 months of mortgage payments for both the house and the condo ON TOP of the money for the down payment on the house. SERIOUSLY!!!! Most people don't have that kind of money just sitting in their bank account. This is literally like 3 days before closing. Everyone thought we were good and fine to own both properties and then this underwriter decides to be super unreasonable, and there isn't anything we can do about it.
Now if you know me, I'm super anxious and super emotional. Chris was actually really impressed with how calm I actually stayed through all the selling, looking, buying process. I don't know why but I was actually pretty calm. Even with the stupid underwriter, I got a little anxious and stressed, but overall I just felt like it would work out (I'm not sure why, it was a mess.)
Through some miracle, lots of work, and some extremely kind people, we were able to buy the house on time, on the original close date. What a relief, and so exciting! We got this great house, in a great neighborhood, in a great location. After lots of deep cleaning, new carpet, and packing we moved into our new house in Pleasant Grove on April 25th.
And the 3rd time was the charm on the condo. A few weeks later the sale on our condo closed. Just in time to not have to pay two mortgages.
God's Plan vs. My Plan
What I learned from all of that craziness is that God has your back. We prayed a lot during all of that, and our families were praying for us too. Now that I look back and it is over it doesn't seem like all that big of a deal. When we were in the middle of it though, it was a lot of big deals, and it seemed like we couldn't catch a break. At the bigginning of it if I had made a plan of how it would how worked out best, it wouldn't have been anything like how it actually happened. Now looking back it worked out perfectly, so much better than I could have planned it. Because I just can't see all the moving parts, but God can. He loves us, he wants us to be happy, and he is looking out for us. I know he answered our prayers and put things in place to make everything work our for us.
Traveling Day
We left for California on Thursday, July 16th, 6 days before surgery. Because of pre-op appointments and her cardiac cath we had to go that early.
And I never finished this post so that is where it ends! There are lots of pictures in our Instagram books from this time.

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