Last paper and my mind's so saturated I can't take it in anymore but I have to. This is just an anxiety episode.
awesome song:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2B50RUXbs-8and from a black singer too. Because I was telling stabs, the older ones sing better. most of them now are just... generic. seriously, the music's like... well its american music in general. of course, exceptions exist and that i am very thankful. as much as i dont have a talent, i like music.
OK OFF TO CRAM IT IN SOMEMORE!
I just got a feedback on my emotional intelligence having done a test. I think it's quite valid. HAHAHA!
Basically, it says I scored pretty damn high on the sending part but pretty damn low on the using/regulating part. Explains for my so-called angstyness but its not angstyness, its more like, heck care~ If you know what that means.
ไปๆฅใใใ่ฉฆ้จใ็ตใใใพใงใใใๆฅๆฌ่ชใฎๅๅผทใใชใใใใซใชใฃใๆนใฏใใใจๆใใพใใ
ไปๆฅใฎ่ฝๅ่ฉฆ้จใฃใฆใใใใใพใใใใชใซ้ฃใใใชใใฃใใใฉใ็้งใฎใขใฏใในใใจๆฏในใ้ฃใใใฃใใใ ใใกใใฃใจใใใฏใชใใงใ่ด่งฃใฎๆนใฏ็ฐกๅใงใใใใใใ ่ชญใใฎใฏๆฉใใฃใใใ ใใใใงใใใใฉใใใใใใชใใใฉใ็ตถๅฏพๅๆ ผใงใใใจๆใใใ ใไธไฝใฉใใใใฎ่ชไฟกใใช๏ผใจใใใใใไปๆฅใใๅฐ้ใฎๅๅผทใใกใใใจใใใ๏ผ็ๅฅฝใใช่จ่ใงใใญใใๆๆฆ๏ผใคใใคใใชใ่ชญใฟๆนใฏๆ้ฎฎใจๅใ๏ผ๏ผใใใใใกใคใใใใๅใคใใใฉใใงใใใใใ๏ผก๏ผไปฅไธๅใฃใใใ
ๅฎใฏใญใๅ้ใใใใฆใๆฅๆฌ่ชใใใใใชใใใใไปฅๅพใฎๆๅฅใๅ้ใฎใฏใซใฐใใจใใใใๅ
จ้จใใใงๆธใใใใ็ธๆใฏ็ฅใฃใฆใใฏใใใชใใงใใใใใ ใใใใใๅ้ใ็งใใใชใๆ่ฟใใใชๆฒ่ฆณใงๆฐใซใชใฃใใฎ๏ผใใฃใฆ่จใใฏใใใชใใใญใ
ไน
ใใถใใซไปๆฅใฎ่จ่ใซใใใ๏ผ
่ฏ็ธ(shi4 xiang4)
literal. know the looks
very useful in life. at work, at home, anywhere! as long as there're people and there's a difference in status/power between them.
e.g. ่ฏ็ธ็ๅฐฑ็ปๆๆป่ฟไธ็นใ
often used in chinese drama. spoken by the a lot more powerful (and usually arrogant) dude.
its the screw off (before you piss me off), do you know who i am? kind of feeling.
you dont have to only use it when one party is threatening the other. you can also use it when the weaker party is afraid of the more powerful one. e.g. you have a group of people, one of them is just like the born leader. talented in scaring people. theres no basis to it but people are just afraid of making him angry so everyone gives in. when people give in, you say they ่ฏ็ธ.
also used often in drama, with gangs/family/foster-family, ็ฟ
่็กฌไบ
literal. wings are hard.
a phrase specially requested by a friend. dont worry i wont leak your name out and dont worry they'll find out because i dont think they read my blog anyway. but if they do, oh well. its time they know im a bitch.
no wait, im quite sure they dont. because ive talked abt the problem a few times here. they just... ignored?!
back to the topic. again, this can be used anywhere, as long as there're people and theres status difference. usually said by parents to the erm... not so obedient kids.
e.g. ๅฅฝไบไฝ ๏ผ็ฐๅจ้ฟๅคงไบ๏ผ็ฟ
่ไน็กฌไบ๏ผๆ นๆฌไธๅฌๆ็่ฏไบใ
for both phrases, we cant really say if the more powerful one or the weaker one is right. it depends on context. sometimes people say it with negative feelings but sometimes, the first phrase can be used as an advice (e.g. you better leave. ่ฏ็ธ็ๅฐฑๅฟซ่ตฐ๏ผ) and the second could be spoken out of helplessness when parents cant talk anymore sense into their kids.
you know, someday... i could write a book you know? like beginner's in colloquial chinese.
