Friday, October 27, 2017

The rant... and the pics

If I'm keeping the blog positive it might not be the best night to blog. Ug. We are currently in the middle of  a terrible "vacation" at a "fancy" downtown Chicago hotel with no wifi so I'll probably opt to add pictures tomorrow. No wifi, no fridge or microwave, glass cups 😳, an elaborate snack tray--with sensors!! So if you pick something up you buy it. The first thing we did was cover that thing! A room right by the elevators that sound like a jet taking off,  and  no vehicle because we rode the train and a high of 40 today...plus the wind. When we did try to go to millennium park -Colt screamed when the wind hit his face and Cannon cried and threw a fit wanting to go back to the hotel the whole time but he was the one that wanted to get out so bad and watching tv was boring and why would Colt want to do that ...he sure liked the 3 hours before when it was his idea. He is SO confrontational lately it's unbearable. On a happier note I think Isaacs meetings have gone well. And I realized this is what they did when he was a kid-his dad would have  mtgs and the family would tag along. But his mom is a good million times more adventurous than I am.  And they went to St George and the nice weather, they had a car... but really I think the killer is the weather, which was why we vetoed the idea of coming with him in the first place. Well that and the 6 hour drive...so Isaac made arrangements for just him, and after he bought his train ticket--and it was a good deal, and Tanner wouldn't cost and the big boys were 1/2 price. He already had the hotel. We decided it would be a fun family adventure. What were we thinking? The charm of the train wore off after about 20 minutes and it was still a 4 hour ride! Then we all pile into a Honda civic uber ride. Then this hotel. Great! Now it's me and Mr whine/complain (ps we're the worst parents all we do is boss him around and never let him do anything and why do you even have to have parents???) Mr clingy screamer man and the little Monster Beast Tornado man. At least the big two will watch TV. 
But the week
Last week Colt Tanner and I went to a birthday party-Cannon could've come, and would'be loved it but he was having a major attitude and wouldn't makes decision. We had a good time. I can't remember what he and Isaac did. That night Cannon and I were supposed to go on a long promised date. I'll admit I wasn't thrilled with the idea because of how much attitude he'd been kicking lately. So we got in the car and I made him go down to Penny's with me first. But we had so much fun there! One on one time is good for us and I need to remember that he needs more of it! He's my little shopping buddy (when we got home I told Isaac I never want to go shopping with him -because it's not fun- I'll take Cannon instead! Ha) it was a great start to us spending some time together. We hit McDonalds for an ice cream and went to Hobby Lobby and Walmart too and called it a date. Good times. 
Sat night I was up late working on costumes that was a blessing because I was down in that room and heard the water start pouring in the basement. The little ice cream buckets I leave there didn't stand a chance! I got 5 gallon bucket but even that 1/2 full in 1/2 hour. So I grabbed out 13 gallon trash can and we ended up emptying it 3 times throughout the night. What a pain but so thankful to catch it! 
Monday Isaac called and said "hey how's your day?" I said well you probably know the worst part--but he didn't. That morning animal control stopped by. I asked him to please just call Isaac, but he didn't. I might be the worst dog parent, but Isaac's right there with me. He's been letting the dog run, and so happy she's been coming back-so he doesn't have to go get her. Well, she's been crapping on the neighborhood lawns and animal control has had multiple complaints. When I told Isaac he said "What, I've never seen her crap on anyone's lawn?" I retorted "You turn her loose and let her run, you don't follow her!" I don't blame the neighbors for calling. He's more like "why don't they just talk to me?" But whatever. Tuesday I went to Cannon's PTC, he got perfect remarks, I think he's just tired of being good by time he gets home. Hmmm...maybe...
Wednesday we survived that stupid PTC dinner I was in charge of for the PTA. I'm quickly learning PTA is just not my thing! And the fall festival at the church was a zoo but fun. Isaac had dinner with someone who was in town with the school or something so I was on my own and probably more than a little frazzled. Yikes! 
And Thursday we started this Chicago adventure.
Oh and Isaac bought another house this week. 
Wait?!
What?!
True.
Maybe. 
No, I think it is really happening and I was on board. 
It's a junker (shocker) but fixed up I think I would probably go for it-and he loves a project so we'll see. Its in the other ward but SUPER close to the school. 
So we'll see....

So the pics 
The party and then the airplane they made there



My shopping buddy date


After seeing these Tiger heads at Walmart Cannon is unimpressed with mine but I just kept telling him we can't wear masks at the church anyway! 
And the reason Dinner wasn't done Sat was someone reached the button and turned it from high to keep warm. Getting to go to Burger King with dad was awesome for Colt though :) and when he took them again Wednesday before the fall festival I was sooooo grateful and told him he was speaking my love language! 


Some of the tiger fun...I'm still tweaking things but we wore these Wednesday 




School pics that I didn't buy-and the deal was they didn't have to wear nice shirts if I wasn't buying them anyway 
And then the train fun...













Good enough for now! 

Friday, October 20, 2017

The rest of the pics...
The I don't know what was going on but the other post wouldn't let me add any more pictures-lame- bit at 2 in the morning I wasn't going to fight it. So here they are in a separate post!
Tanner-every-single-day when we drop Colt off, heads to the phone to make his phone call. Its just part of the routine. Its pretty cute.

And its dang cute when we demands a hug from Cannon when we pick him up from school. You can see about how cooperative Cannon is, oh well.
This next one...an Ice Cream come...at 6:39 AM...I took this picture just for my friend that always says Isaac is like a big kid (Like when she saw him racing the kids in the gym after stake conference Sunday, oh brother.) I waited until a decent hour to send her the pic though.
Just more of what we do...

And a couple pics from the BBQ tonight.
That's two good smiles to end on. Until Next week!!!...

A couple pics that got left out last time! 
Saturday Cannon got to go to Gavin's birthday party
Gavin and Cannon became fast friends the first day of Kindergarten last year, so Cannon looked fwd to going to his birthday party as much as he looked fwd to us coming home! He had a blast and said "Mom, I want to do that when its my birthday." One of these days my "I don't do birthday parties" answers is going to wear out. Ha. (Seriously though that was the best advice ever.)
Monday Colt's class got to go on a field trip, so Tanner and I met them there.
...my boys were obviously not impressed with the wagon ride. In fact Colton wanted to call Grampa and tell him his tractor rides were MUCH better. But we had a good time.

The Corn Box was a hit. And a 40 ft slide! Game on. TanO too!!

 
Colt was ultra disappointed he didn't get to climb on this caterpillar!
That was clear back Monday but I guess its been a slow week since then. I have a few more pics but I guess they didn't upload...I'm not sure why. I'll have to try again.
Tonight we had a hot dog roast out at the Kaden's. It was fun. Then Isaac drummed us up a little service project/date. Our friend in the ward here is building a hotel so they are bust'n it to try to get open. So tonight (ok yesterday if we're really counting the time of this post. YIKES) after the hot dog roast we came home and got the kids to bed then Brynn came and tended and we went and did touch up work at the hotel. It was REALLY fun. It reminded me of the time Isaac painted "I love Lyndi" on what was going to be our bedroom wall (because I hated the green color that it was he changed it for me)
But anyway I guess that's about it.

Saturday, October 14, 2017

Our little family is back together again!

Ok the week, I had this one line typed in from sometime during the chaos: I think I miss Isaac most at bedtime😩
We got home and Tanner promptly figured out how to climb out of his crib so even with Isaac here bedtime (and specifically nap time) is no picnic.
We started out the day Saturday at Home Depot day...and I quickly decided its a lot more fun when Isaac does all the work and I just tag along and take pictures. Good Heavens! It was quite a project keeping these two busy bodies building and painting.
We got Grama out of the house and had a little picnic on the red rocks while these two ran around.


And we finally got picture of Tanner smiling -kind of-on the horse! Actually he quite like it when he could hold on to Colt.

Above was Tanner cashing in on some Poppa time. And below I got a picture from my Cann Man. It was so good for my mom heart. Dang I missed him.

 
Popsicle's at Poppa's...cuz its what we do. However Tanner thinks EVERY SINGLE TIME he walks into the laundry room he should get a Popsicle. Just ask him. He stands at the freezer door and yells "Pop Pop Pop" He says something else with it -that I'm sure means sicle in his mind, but it doesn't sound close. But the communication is CLEAR. Ha
Then there's my Colt Buddy--just winning points with Grama
 
 
He loved helping Grampa on the tractor and was pretty proud of himself running the bucket! 
 
Tanner's pick'n right up on the Poppa's helper stuff too! I quit taken pictures of Colt on the horse cuz I figured they all look the same, but then I had way more pics of Tanner. Oh well.
 
I don't know what Tanner was feeding Sugar which time but he's in cahoots with that dog...I caught him crawled under the table trying share with her multiple times! (And no remote or computer is safe with that little guy around!)
We went and said Hi to Aunt Kay and Great Grandma Cottam again, Tanner was pretty excited there was a motorcycle in the garage. They are pretty much his favorite thing. And he talked Uncle Steve into reading him and Elmo story.

And then Tuesday it was time to head back. We were SO SO SO ready to see our Dad and Cann Man but it was a little tough to leave too. I kept oscillating between oh I should have planned better and well we did the best we could. Shrug. I knew we were helpful, maybe we could've done more. But oh well. I do think Grama is making progress though so that is good!
Between when we flew out and flew back TSA started checking tablets too. So I hummed and ha'd about whether I even wanted them in the carry on stuff because I would have to dig them out for security (twice) and we were flying through the night anyway so hopefully we'd be sleeping-yeah right-  (AND I can't complain about TSA at all because I ran into the nicest TSA workers in STL but it was still a decision) Grama voted just to take them and I was sooo glad, they saved me.
Oh man I think documenting the flight back could be a post itself. But here we go:  We got on the shuttle about 8:45--Colt went right to sleep. He really was a great traveler for me, I was so grateful because its usually not his thing. Tanner, no way. No sleep in sight. So much for my nap on the shuttle. We got into the Las Vegas valley and he was really fighting it so at that point I was just trying to keep him awake. We were driving by the strip and I turned my head just looking for Mandalay Bay where the shooting was and whatever. Whoops...Tanner OUT. Great. 10 minute power nap for the monster. Oh well. Tablets and movies for the win...

...almost. As we were boarded we were just about to step on the plane and Tanner started coughing. Coughing coughing coughing. I didn't think much of it there wasn't much I could do, I had a little water with me but I thought I'd get it for him when we sat down. So we step on the plan I say to Colt "look buddy it's the pilot, he's going to fly us back to see daddy and Cannon" when all of the sudden Mr Coughing PUKES ALL OVER. All over him, all over me, and all over the floor. The pilot ducks into the cockpit for cover, the flight attendant hands me napkins and told Colt where to stand out of the way. Oh it was a disaster! I set Tanner down in the front mini bathroom (where he puked again) and tried to wipe up the floor. Strip him down. I only had diaper bag clothes for Colt, I knew that when I put them in I figured Tanner could wear them in a pinch but I really didn't think we'd need them. Ha. Thankfully I had a diaper bag shirt for me too (cuz Colton puked all over in a plane once too and I learned then to put extra clothes for me in too) but it was at the very bottom of the bag and I had a shirt layered over one of those "shade" shirts so I just stripped my top layer off in front of a loaded plane. Not exactly my style but I was trying to get the puke off me quick before it soaked in!! So we get cleaned up ish and work our way back to our seats and there's 3 empty seats in front of us but while I was dealing with the mess I swear they had said over the intercom they expected a full flight. So instead of just piling in the empty seats we crawled in past the gal and sat in our assigned seats. We sit down and Colt says Mom! I can smell it! Ummm sorry...so we wrestled and fight and whatever while the rest of the flight tries to sleep. Twice the man behind me taps me on the shoulder and tells me to go sit in the next row where there were 3 empty seats. "So my child can have his own seat" Tanner is NOT a good lap child, he just wants his own seat like his brother. I didn't want to wake the lady next to me -who had ear phones and was oblivious-finally the second time the guy behind tapped I woke her up threw the boys blankets over the seats and we moved--we left all our junk (including my phone back there)
We survived.
And even slept the last 45 min of the flight.
A nice guy from Little Valley traveling with four kids of his own (and his wife and they were bigger kids  so they woke up and walked off) carried Tanner off the plane for me. He would have taken Colt but I told him he would scream so it wasn't worth it. Anyway he's carrying Tanner down the airport when Tanner starts to cough both kids are awake at this point so I told Colt he HAD to walk and grabbed Tanner explaining he'd puked when coughing earlier. (As if anyone on that flight had missed it.) His wife said it's okay he'd been puked on before but I insisted I take him back. So the nice man carried my bag. I'm telling you--fellow travelers are the best!

Well as we were walking down the airport with our new friends Colt started freaking out wanting to stop then wanting milk. With a 5 hour layover I figured we were in no hurry so I got my bag bag and we stopped. Then we went on a milk hunt. We waited 20 min in line at Starbucks for a $3 cup of milk (cuz they were the ONLY airport store with milk) that Colt then wouldn't drink because it had ice in it. Have mercy! We finally made it to our luggage where we got out some pants that actually fit Tanner (left him in Colts shirt though) and goofed around bungee cording the car seats to the suitcase so we could get around easier. We had to recheck in to ride the puddle jumper so we got up to the Cape Air place and waited the 20 min for them to open. More winning with tablet time. 
Then--Horrible news. 
We could take the car seats but we had to take them to the gate with us cuz bla bla bla (whatever her excuse was it was stupid and didn't make any sense)  so she checked our bag but not out car seats... which just really left me with a ridiculously big load--without any rolling wheels now-- and 2 kids that had been up all but 45 min of the night. Great. Thanks lady. 
So we made our way back down to security again. A TSA lady asked if she could help me. I said thanks but I'm just headed right there and nodded ahead. She said "Well, that's where I'm headed" and took the car seats out of my hands. Then she turned around and said "actually, follow me" and walked us to the front of the security line. Then she ask one of the workers what he was doing to which he answered he was just waiting to help her out. She said good and instructed him to take the car seats to the gate for me when I got through security. So nice! And with a little more tablet magic Tanner accidentally blinked and his eyes stayed shut the whole layover!! Pretty sure the last time the little monster slept in my arms was back when he nursed!
We weren't totally out of the woods because of those stupid car seats--they counted as luggage we weren't supposed to leave unattended 🙄 so we couldn't go over to the play area, which was really close to our gate, we did leave them twice for bathroom runs-and it was fine, but good heck! Again so thankful for the tablets and cartoons downloaded on them. They were a lifesaver for me AND Colt.
And then there was our first Cape Air experience...puddle jumper!! Over documented but I'm telling you...you step on on to that baby the first time and...wonder if it will be the last!!
I asked Colt if he was going to fall asleep--he said "maybe" but I'm pretty sure he was gone before take off! Take off was a little bumpy and had me sweating. But floating along the clouds was pretty cool!!
Landing was awesome. The picture doesn't do it justice cuz you can't see the little lights all along the runway but I figured the fact the other guy had his phone out too was evidence it was awesome😉
And we made it home to Kirksville!!! Its far away but we love this little town. Our much anticipated reunion with dad at the airport...well we had to wait about 2 minutes because he wasn't there yet but it was REALLY REALLY GOOD to see him when he came. We went right to the school to check Cannon out for the rest of the day!!! I didn't get a picture but it was SO SO SO GOOD to see him and hug my Big little boy. Oh I missed him. I tried really really hard to never say "I miss you" on the phone, and just focus on hey-are you having fun with dad, and playing with your friends after school and so on.  But the truth was dangit I missed him! (and Colt would say it for me) After he hugged me he piled in the car and THIS is my FAVORITE pic of the whole week!!!
He hugged Tan in the car seat too. We were so glad to be able to go, but it was SO So good to be back together as a family too.
Other than getting home the only news on the week was the no nap crib climbing monster! This one the second day after I'd moved the drawers away and he couldn't use them to step on...he threw anything and everything within reach and stood just like this yelling. It wasn't like I gave in easy-it was an hour and a half!!!...I thought he'd sleep when we went down to get Cannon...wrong. He did finally crash when I went to pick up the babysitter. Thank Heaven.
Then we did the murder mystery thing (already posted about) last night. It was fun but it really was a little too close to when we got back. I don't feel recovered yet! Oh well.
Until next week...hopefully Friday, I seem to be making a habit of this Saturday thing...