Friday, May 30, 2008

Still here~

I know that I haven't posted much lately, and when I do post, it's all about Dylan. Considering I don't leave the house, and he's my life right now, it's understandable I hope. However, I am trying to think of new material to post, so it's not just the Dylan show. Bear with me though, since he's got me ball and chained to the house with his constant feedings, I don't get out very much. We have made a few short trips like we made it to Target two times, Kroger and last night we even ventured out to eat at Logan's. He did great, slept the whole time.  We even made it to Angel's faithful and frugal class, but I can't say that he slept the whole time there.  He was wide awake and wanting to eat the entire time.  Goodness, this kid can eat!  

On another note, I want to ask everyone to pray for my friend, Janine.  Janine and I grew up together. Our parents were best friends, so every weekend, our families got together. The adults would play Rook or spoons, and the kids, we'd just play. Her brother and my brother are the same age and Janine's a little older than me, so everyone got along wonderfully.  Janine's husband passed away this week after having surgery on his back.  He made it through surgery, was doing great and was set to be released.  However, God had a different plan, and Craig passed away in the middle of the night.  This is all sudden and I know Janine's heart is aching as mine is aching for her. Please pray for her strength and comfort.  I can't imagine what she is feeling right now, but I want her to feel that she's loved and being prayed for.  

Tuesday, May 20, 2008

Dylan's 1st play date

Dylan, Ellie and Cole
Dylan and Ellie

It was more like new mommies day out...

My friends Jill and Dana stopped by for a visit the other day and brought along their little ones, Ellie and Cole.  If you recall, Cole was born on April 30th and Ellie was born on May 1st.  They have a good 9-10 days on Dylan, so he's the new kid on the block, the rookie, the youngin...you get the picture.  He may be the youngest,  but he's the biggest.  It will be interesting to watch our children grow and develop.  Who knows they could all be best friends.



Tuesday, May 13, 2008

The Birth Story




I would have to say that my labor started early Friday morning around 3am, when I began experiencing what I thought were braxton hicks contractions. Up until this point, I hadn't felt any contractions, so I thought that's what they were. I was thankful that I had an appointment first thing that morning as I was anxious to see if I had dilated. Well as you know from reading my blog, I had dilated to 3cm.  However, I was sent home. I spent most of the day at my friend's house playing backgammon. She taught, and I won most of the games :)  Ok back to the story...on my way home, I stopped by the store to get a gallon of milk as we were going to need it for breakfast, or so I thought. Damien fixed a spaghetti dinner as I was still having these pesky BH contractions. After dinner, we watched 27 Dresses, that my friend loaned me, as it was due back the next day and she had already watched it. Throughout the movie, I was having the contractions and even started timing them and writing them down. (Oh yeah, I failed to mention that at one point I was hurting and Damien laughed at me....he got yelled out and I threatened to not let him witness the birth of his son if he was going to be that way. He apologized and said he didn't know that I was having contractions because I didn't say anything.  Well I didn't know I was having them either...still thinking BH contractions.) Sorry to digress, back again...After the movie, we started getting ready for bed. I tried to lay down, by it seem to intensify the contractions, so I decided to go and sit in the chair and ottoman in the living room.  Turbo and Sophie must have known something was up as they got up from bed and followed me. Usually once they turn in, they are in. I continue to track the contractions, and as they got stronger, I had to use the bathroom after each one as there was so much pressure.  During my last trip, after I completed the transaction (hehe), I felt a pop and then a gush of water. I thought that had to be my water breaking, so I called the doctors office. The on call DR called me back within 2 minutes, thankfully, and I was told to head on in.  Damien and I rounded up our things and jumped in the car, but we had to make a pit stop at blockbuster to return the movie. That, my friends, is called dedication. We arrived at the hospital at 1:30am where we proceeded to check in. Wouldn't you know it, I got the room that I had hoped to get. During our hospital tour, a few weeks back, we noticed the corner room #233 was very large and nice. I got it!  This is a good sign.  By the time I got naked and checked, I was 5 cm. REALLY!  However, my water had not broke, but they decided to keep me anyway :)   I started the pesky questionnaires and lab work to make sure I could get an epidural.  (something about platelets) Then my friend, the CRNA, came in with the drugs. It took her several tries to find a place for the epidural, 3 to be exact. She said that I had the tightest ligaments in my spine that she had ever seen and insisted that I must have been a belly dancer.  After 30 minutes of trying, she finally got it in. All along, I am having to bend over, relax my shoulders, drop my chin and not move, and through contractions mind you...there were no breaks.  After she administered "the stuff", I was checked again and was at 6cm. Within some time, the stuff worked, mostly on the left side, so they had to maneuver me around to ensure the right side got it too.  I was informed that the doctor was on her way in, so we waited. Now, my water had broke. We were right on track. I was informed that the doctor was on her way in, so we waited.  An hour or so later, the nurse came back in and checked me, I was now at 9cm.  Where is that doctor?  Still on her way in. 30 minutes or so go by and I feel some pressure down there like something might be coming out, so I paged the nurse. She came in and said yep, you are pretty much at 10. Hopefully the DR will be here soon.  I asked her if she was coming from Pulaski. They were scared to even get me ready and put me in stirrups as they thought Dylan might come on out, and since we did core blood banking, they wanted the DR to be there. Finally, she gets there and they start prepping me and the room.  At 6:45am, I started pushing and Dylan arrived at 7:14am.  The whole time I was pushing, I was praying that I could do it and do it fast.  I think 30 minutes isn't too shabby.  They put him in my arms immediately and I just looked at him. He was so cute and I loved him already.  Damien was a trooper and cut the cord even though he said he wasn't. He said it was it bit tougher than he anticipated. The delivery was easy peezy, but the first trip out of the bed to the potty, was by far the worst part. I thought I was going to die on the toilet just like Elvis. I was faint, light headed and nausea. Damien said he was really scared because I looked so bad. My advice to others, hold out on the  potty as long as you can. 

We can't wait to share with you all, the experiences we are going to have as we go through life as a family of 5. (Turbo and Sophie included.)

Saturday, May 10, 2008

Welcome to the world....Dylan Sutton Weaver



Dylan arrived this morning at 7:14 am.  He weighed 8lbs and 2oz and measured in at 21 inches. I pushed for about 30 minutes, and I have to admit it's a lot easier than I thought it was going to be. Now, post delivery is another story.  Please pray for my healing in that area. 

Congrats to Angel on winning  the guessing game.  She was off by 10 ounces and 1 hour and 1 minute late. She got the date and length spot on.  You will be getting a nice gift card, but don't expect it to be Pioneer Woman style :)

Baby on the way - Trip to the Hospital!

Well, we arrived at the hospital at 1:30am (this is Damien). Stephanie was a champ today. She went into labor and stayed at home until she was dilated to 5cm (as we found out from the nurse). We are now in our hospital room with Stephanie's Mom and Dad. The epidural has been administered and contractions are still coming. By the time all of you wake up on Saturday morning, May 10, Dylan should have arrived!!
Please say a prayer for mother and baby. Stephanie or I will post again once we meet our boy. Stay tuned...

Friday, May 9, 2008

Back Home

While they did not keep me, I have graduated to 3cm dilated and 70% effaced. The doctor said she'd be surprised if I made it to Wednesday. She thinks I will go soon. We will keep you posted.

Is this it?

Here it is, Friday at 5am, and I have been awake for 2 hours. I am not sure if I am having real labor contractions or just braxton hicks, but I am glad that I have a doctor's appointment today at 8:40am. I am not having any pain, more so, discomfort and I can tell that my belly is tightening and that I feel lots of pressure. This could be it, but since it's my first rodeo, I am not totally convinced since my water hasn't broken nor am I in lots of pain.
However, before I woke up at 3:00am, I did have a dream that I was at the hospital about to give birth. First the dream started off by me trying to wake up Damien. Then I was at the hospital where they started an IV on me and put me in this tiny room that was open to the waiting room. Next thing I know, I coming out of a "deep sleep" and I am screaming for help. Now I don't know what any of this means, but I hope this isn't how it goes down. :)
If I don't end up staying at the hospital after my doctors appointment, I will post a quick blog to say that I am at home.

Tuesday, May 6, 2008

same ole same ole

I went to the Dr yesterday for my 39 week  and 4 day check up, and I am still dilated to 1cm and 50% effaced. I have been this way now for 4 weeks.  Either Dylan is super cozy or my body has no idea what to do.  She asked me if I wanted to be induced or go natural. I told her I prefer things to go on God's time unless the baby has to come out. She agreed.  If I haven't had the baby by Friday, I am going back in for an ultrasound to make sure my fluids and everything else is okay.  However, she doesn't want me going past 41 weeks as placenta starts breaking down (she didn't say that exactly, but I assuming that's the reason). So, if he isn't here by next Wednesday, that will be his birthday as they will induce me at 40 weeks and 6 days. Here's to May 14th. I still believe that God just might grant my wish, and that he will be born this Sunday on Mother's Day.  

Sunday, May 4, 2008

You probably think this song is about you...

Sometimes, Damien makes me laugh, without even trying. Just so you know, he doesn't say these things on purpose, it's all accidental.

A few weeks ago, we were singing in church, How Great is Our God by Chris Tomlin. The chorus goes like this: How great is our God, sing with me, How great is our God, and all will see How great, How great, Is our God. Damien's version went like this: How great is our God, sing to me...apparently he thought the whole congregation should sing to him. I couldn't help but giggle.

Then today, on our way to church, we were listening to Eric Clapton. The verse went, my darling, you look wonderful tonight. Damien's version: My darling, I look wonderful tonight.

Now by no means do I think these are selfish comments. I honestly think they were slip ups, but they sure made me laugh.

Friday, May 2, 2008

Zappos, I love you

For those not familiar with www.zappos.com, let me share my first experience with you.  I went shopping yesterday for some decent flip flops.  If you know me, I tend to be cheap and by flip flops for the summer from Wal-Mart, Old Navy or Target.  The flip flops get me by for the summer, but leave memories with me, in the form of cracked heels. 

I decided, I am going to treat myself to some good flip flops. Some that offer support and will not hurt my feet. I went to Dicks and another outdoor store in downtown Franklin. I found some flip flops I liked, but of course, they didn't have my size.  I decided to come home and see if I could find a good deal on-line. Now, I have never purchased from Zappos before, but I know plenty of people who have and they raved about it.  They give you shots of the shoes from every angle, and they have free shipping both ways.  Meaning if you don't like the shoes or they don't fit, then when you ship them back, it's free.  How great is that. Then the perk of not having to pay tax is a plus as well.  I ordered a 2 pack of REEF flip flops for $46, same pair one in black and one in brown. I placed the order around 4:30pm. I was shocked when I got the shoes around 1:00pm today!!! I got the shoes in less than 24 hours.  My preggy swollen feet say thank you Zappos.  If I would have purchased these shoes yesterday in the store (if they had my size), it would have been about $49, so I saved money as well - $3 dollars, that's almost a gallon of gas.

Thursday, May 1, 2008

Baby Update

Tricked you...it's not a my baby update. It's everyone else.  

Jill had her baby on April 30th at 8:30 am.  He weighed 5lbs and 8oz.  Dana, well, she's at the hospital probably pushing as I type. She started having contractions this morning around 3:30 and came to the hospital around 9ish, I'd say.  

Apparently the hospital, Williamson Medical, to be exact is the happening place to be. I went there this morning to sit with my friend Lindsay who had an appendectomy last night so her husband could run some errands. While sitting with Lindsay, Jill called to tell me Dana was there as well. I bounced over to see Glen, Jill and Cole. Then, over to Nick and Dana's room. I was only there a short minute or two, then the doctor came in to break her water, so baby Ellie should be making her appearance any minute now.

Need I remind everyone that Dana and Jill were due May 12th. My due date is May 8th. The person to go first, is going last.  I'd like to say, saving the best for last, but all babies are the best. I just say maybe God's giving me May 11th like I want. So for all our church friends, I will be holding down the preggy row this week by myself more than likely.