alam sayang u ols,...
Blog nie berwajah baru lagi :D. Biasalah 4 bulan dah berlalu. Kalau nak maju dan sentiasa kehadapan, kita mestilah sentiasa inovatif dan berevolusi. Tak boleh masih berada di takuk lama.. Invention tu penting untuk sentiasa kekal unik ;)
So, ok tak layout nie??
Ada macam commercial nyer weblog tak? ;)) Heheheh!! Entahler, just wanna change to something new...;;)
Tak der hapdate hari nie. Cuma satu soalan, kalaulah kat Malaysia nie semua bangsa Cina, Melayu, India dan bangsa kaum lain menjadi satu bangsa iaitu "bangsa Malaysia",.. apakah keburukkannya?
Ini soalan untuk 200 tahun yang akan datang,... Bagaimanakah Malaysia dlm tempoh 200 tahun yang akan datang? Masih adakah kaum Melayu, India, Cina dan lain-lain??
Jika wujud bangsa baru yang dinamakan "Malaysian", apakah keburukkannya??
Jom renungkan...
ADam Dryx
"Lesung Pipit di Pipi Kanan"
alam sayang u ols,...
Hari nie tak der citer nak taip. So, kita kongsi tengok gambar lama jer lah. Ini gambar ambil kat Zurich 2 (atau 3) tahun lepas... Dah lama scanned dan download dlm laptop nie tapi tak perasan. So, diabadikan kat sini supaya tak ler hilang...
(Yup! Dari dulu sampai sekarang memang kurus...)
"Lain padang lain belalang, lain orang lain ragam!"
ADam Dryx
"Lesung Pipit di Pipi Kanan"
alam sayang u ols,...
Kalau semalam kita bercakap pasal fantasi, hari nie nak cakap pasal delusion lak... Tak sure pulak apa maksudnya dalam bahasa melayu, tapi "veranganzs" mungkin frasa yg paling hampir....
Kalau dlm dunia PLU, delusion yang paling ketara ialah angan-angan dapat Mr.Perfect sebagai buah hati. Tak pun angan-angan bercinta dengan putera raja. Paling koman, angan-angan orang yg kita suka amat sangat pun mempunyai perasaan yang sama sayang ngan kita...
Pastu mula la bermimpi yg bukan-bukan... hatta waima blom tentu org tersebut berkenan ngan kita sikit pun. Kes paling teruk, walaupun dah direject terang-terangan, kita tetap juga tak mahu terima kenyataan dan masih lagi mabuk kepayang..
Sebab tu sesungguhnya kita harus berpijak dibumi yang nyata. Kaedahnya mudah jer... Kalau ada org yg kita suka tapi blom tentu suka kat kita, fikirkan juga di luar sana, ada orang yg tahap gila gaban suka kat kita tapi blom tentu kita mempunyai perasaan yg sama sepertinya... so back to simple rules, ..
"what goes around comes around..."
Jutawan di usia 50 tahun
Tadi terdengar siaran "50 days to 50 years" sempena sambutan Hari Kebangsaan yang ke 50 tahun ini. Then terfikir pula, pada Ogos 31, 2026 (lebih kurang 20 tahun lagi), ADam akan berusia 50 tahun, dan bagaimanakah keadaannya ketika itu.
So, I set a target,.. Kalaulah rutin menyimpan 5 ribu sebulan berkekalan, setahun akan terkumpul sebanyak RM60K, sepuluh tahun akan menjadi RM600K dan dlm tempoh 20 tahun akan menjadi RM1.2 juta....
Wow!! Bergelar jutawan apabila berusia 50 tahun. Ini mungkin delusion tapi tidak mustahil akan terjadi.... Tapi, bila direnungkan semula, RM1.2K dalam masa 20 tahun... perlu dedikasi dan displin.
So, dalam kebanggaan menyambut Hari Kemerdekaan yang ke 69 pada tahun 2026, (Semuga panjang umur, murah rezeki,.. Aminn!) I will be a Millionaire Malaysian.
Disclaimer : Ini ADam nyer blog dan suka hatilah nak tulis apa sekalipun. I just motivate myself to be better than yesterday and how do i motivate myself and do it is none of anyone else bussiness.
Tak suka tak yah ler baca. Kalau baca terima jerlah apa yg ditulis.
Kan?
"Think rich, getting rich. Grow RICH!"
Masak dan dinner di rumah
Masuk hari nie dah tiga malam masak dan makan malam kat rumah. Malam nie menu sambal tumis udang. Sedapnya sebab letak serai,... Mumu punya resepi. Heheheh!!
Dah naik bosan pergi ke sana kemari semua orang bertanya kenapa nampak semakin kurus walhal berat badan tetap sama seperti dulu.
Harap-harap dengan makan di rumah tiap-tiap malam nie akan nampak ler perubahan. Well, ini hanya sebagai permulaan... lepas nie nanti, berkat dinner akan berlarutan ke breakfast dan lunch...
Hahahaha!! Jangan terkejut jika suatu hari nanti ADam Dryx akan masak nasi lemak sendiri sebagai menu breakfast... hahaha!! (Ops! Ini impian, bukan delution okeh! *wink!)
Apapun thank to Iky sebab nampaknya berselera sungguh dia makan. Licin satu pinggan. Jika dah begitu, membuatkan berbaloi rasanya memasak di rumah. Rasanya tiap-tiap malam masak pun tak per.
Late nite di Putrajaya
Janjinya nak breakfast sesama ngan si Dia pagi nie... tapi sebab semalam tido lambat maka bila si Dia telefon nak confirmkan breakfast rasa tak larat sangat. Sudahnya kami tak berjumpa hari nie.
But then, lepas si Dia habis kerja pukul 12 tengah malam tadi, kami terus buat rancangan untuk berjumpa. Dimintanya menemankan makan maggie goreng di Putrajaya. Well, maggie goreng di Precint 9 nie antara menu maggi goreng yg boleh dikategorikan sedap untuk dimakan.
Dulu sewaktu kami bersama, maggi goreng inilah yang menjadi sajian rutin kami berdua.
Katanya, dah lama benar tak makan di Putrajaya ini. Tiada yang menemankan... Hehehe!! Awak jgn bimbang. Nanti dah dapat teman serumah yang baru tu nanti, bawa-bawalah dia selalu ke sana ... pasti menjadi nostalgia dan sentimen untuk kamu berdua pula.
Dari kedai mamak tu, kami berdua mengimbau cerita dan kisah lama di jambatan Precint 8 tu. Itulah tempat kami kami berdua mula-mula dating dulu. Senang sekali bersama si Dia. Banyak cerita-ceritanya mencetuskan gelak ketawa kami bersama. yang pasti bersamanya membuatkan ADam tenang dan pastinya terasa amat bahagia.
Kehilangannya sekali cukup mengajar bahawa tidak mungkin sanggup untuk membiarkannya hilang sekali lagi. Peluang kedua yang diberikan ini akan dipergunakan sebaik mungkin. Ada perbezaan dalam tutur kata dan gerak laku si Dia. Si Dia semakin matang dan ini jelas terpampang dari setiap perbualannya.
Mungkin masa untuk kami menyambung kembali hubungan yang terputus suatu ketika dulu. Sekurang-kurangnya kalau tidak bersambung sekalipun, we can start to pick up back what we left of....
ADam Dryx
"Lesung Pipit di Pipi Kanan"
alam sayang u ols,...
Sihat?? Semuga dlm lindungan rahmat Ilahi hendaknya,...
Aminn!!
Well, dunia khayalan ciptaan minda memang best mengasyikan... tiada masalah dan segalanya indah belaka... Ada manusia yg suka hidup dalam dunia fantasi ciptaannya sendiri. Semuanya indah-indah belaka.
Tapi suka atau tidak, fantasi tak kekal lama,... akhirnya terpaksa berpijak di bumi yg nyata juga.. Tanggungjawab wajib dipikul dan ada tugas yg perlu diselesaikan...
ADam Dryx : Teringat pada seorang teman lama yg indah dlm dunianya khayalan ciptaannya sendiri. Harap kini dia bahagia berlari di antara pelangi di bumi Jerman...
Semuga berjumpa dengan geluk emas di hujung warna pelangi itu. (Andainya itulah yg dicari,...)
ADam Dryx
"Lesung Pipit di Pipi Kanan"
alam sayang u ols,...
Dari Julai sampai December ada lagi 6 bulan. Kalau sebulan dapat simpan 5 ribu, cukup tahun nie akan ada 30 ribu. So, matlamat jangka pendek tahun nie ialah simpanan 5 ribu dalam ASB setiap bulan untuk mencukupkan 30 ribu hujung tahun...
Wah!! Mewahler Aidilfitri tahun nie... Ahaks!
Hmmm, tapi.. boleh ke agaknya??
ADam Dryx
"Lesung Pipit di Pipi Kanan"
alam sayang u ols,...
Dalam melihat, mendengar dan berkata-kata, ada satu persamaan yang perlu diperhatikan iaitu mesej yg ingin disampaikan...
"Judge the content, not the delivery"
Cara penyampaian berbagai rupa berbeza-beza. Untuk mnyedapkan cerita tambah garam, gula penyedap rasa sesedap mungkin. Tapi isi penyampaian tetap tidak akan berubah. Maka,..
"Kajilah apa mesej/pengajaran/point/matlamat yang cuba disampaikan dan bukannya cara mesej tersebut disampaikan".
ADam Dryx
"Lesung Pipit di Pipi Kanan"
alam sayang u ols,...
52 Proven Stress Reducers
National Headache Foundation
5252 N. Western Avenue ? Chicago, Illinois 60625
(312) 878-7715 ? In Illinois 1-800-523-8858 ? Outside Illinois 1-800-843-2256
"Get up fifteen minutes earlier in the morning. The inevitable morning mishaps will be less stressful."
"Prepare for the morning the evening before. Set the breakfast table, make lunches, put out the clothes you plan to wear, etc."
"Don't rely on your memory. Write down appointment times, when to pick up the laundry, when library books are due, etc.
("The palest ink is better than the most retentive memory." - Old Chinese Proverb)"
"Do nothing which, after being done, leads you to tell a lie."
"Make duplicates of all keys. Bury a house key in a secret spot in the garden and carry a duplicate car key in your wallet, apart from your key ring."
"Practice preventive maintenance. Your car, appliances, home, and relationships will be less likely to break down/fall apart "at the worst possible moment."
"Be prepared to wait. A paperback can make a wait in a post office line almost pleasant."
"Procrastination(Melengah-lengahkan kerja) is stressful. Whatever you want to do tomorrow, do today; whatever you want to do today, do it now."
"Plan ahead. Don't let the gas tank get below one-quarter full; keep a well-stocked "emergency shelf" of home staples; don't wait until you're down to your last bus token or postage stamp to buy more; etc."
"Don't put up with something that doesn't work right. If your alarm clock, wallet, shoe laces, windshield wipers, whatever, are a constant aggravation, get them fixed or get new ones."
"Allow 15 minutes of extra time to get to appointments. Plan to arrive at an airport one hour before domestic departures."
"Eliminate (or restrict) the amount of caffeine in your diet."
"Always set up contingency plans B, "just in case."
("If for some reason either of us is delayed, here's what we'll do?" kind of thing. Or, "If we get split up in the shopping center, here's where we'll meet.")
"Relax your standards. The world will not end if the grass doesn't get mowed this weekend."
"Pollyanna-Power! For every one thing that goes wrong, there are probably 10 or 50 or 100 blessings. Count 'em!"
"Ask questions. Taking a few moments to repeat back directions, what someone expects of you, etc., can save hours.
(The old "the hurrieder I go, the behinder I get, " idea.)"
"Say "No!"
Saying "no" to extra projects, social activities, and invitations you know you don't have the time or energy for takes practice, self-respect, and a belief that everyone, everyday, needs quiet time to relax and be alone."
"Unplug your phone. Want to take a long bath, meditate, sleep, or read without interruption? Drum up the courage to temporarily disconnect.
(The possibility of there being a terrible emergency in the next hour or so is almost nil.) Or use an answering machine."
"Turn 'needs' into preferences. Our basic physical needs translate into food, water, and keeping warm. Everything else is a preference. Don't get attached to preferences."
"Simplify, simplify, simplify?"
"Make friends with nonworriers. Nothing can get you into the habit of worrying faster than associating with chronic worrywarts."
"Get up and stretch periodically if your job requires that you sit for extended periods."
"Wear earplugs. If you need to find quiet at home, pop in some earplugs."
"Get enough sleep. If necessary, use an alarm clock to remind you to go to bed."
"Create order out of chaos. Organize your home and workspace so that you always know exactly where things are. Put things away where they belong and you won't have to go through the stress of losing things."
"When feeling stressed, most people tend to breathe in short, shallow breaths. When you breathe like this, stale air is not expelled, oxidation of the tissues is incomplete, and muscle tension frequently results.
Check your breathing throughout the day, and before, during, and after high-pressure situations. If you find your stomach muscles are knotted and your breathing is shallow, relax all your muscles and take several deep, slow breaths. Note how, when you're relaxed, both your abdomen and chest expand when you breathe."
"Writing your thoughts and feelings down (in a journal, or on paper to be thrown away) can help you clarify things and can give you a renewed perspective."
"Try the following yoga technique whenever you feel the need to relax. Inhale deeply through you nose to the count of eight. Then, with lips puckered, exhale very slowly through your mouth to the count of 16, or for as long as you can. Concentrate on the long sighing sound and feel the tension dissolve. Repeat 10 times."
"Inoculate yourself against a feared event.
Example; before speaking in public, take time to go over every part of the experience in your mind. Imagine what you'll wear, what the audience will look like, how you will present your talk, what the questions will be and how you will answer them, etc. Visualize the experience the way you would have it be. You'll likely find that when the time comes to make the actual presentation, it will be "old hat" and much of your anxiety will have fled."
"When the stress of having to get a job done gets in the way of getting the job done, diversion ; a voluntary change in activity and/or environment ; may be just what you need."
"Talk it out. Discussing your problems with a trusted friend can help clear your mind of confusion so you can concentrate on problem solving."
"One of the most obvious ways to avoid unnecessary stress is to select an environment (work, home, leisure) which is in line with your personal needs and desires. If you hate desk jobs, don't accept a job which requires that you sit at a desk all day. If you hate to talk politics, don't associate with people who love to talk politics, etc."
"Learn to live one day at a time."
"Every day, do something you really enjoy."
"Add an ounce of love to everything you do."
"Take a hot bath or shower (or a cool one in summertime) to relieve tension."
"Do something for somebody else."
"Focus on understanding rather than on being understood; on loving rather than on being loved."
"Do something that will improve your appearance. Looking better can help you feel better."
"Schedule a realistic day. Avoid the tendency to schedule back-to-back appointments; allow time between appointments for a breathing spell."
"Become more flexible. Some things are worth not doing perfectly and some issues are well to compromise upon."
"Eliminate destructive self-talk: "I'm too old to?," "I'm too fat to?," etc."
"Use your weekend time for a change of pace. If you work week is slow and patterned, make sure there is action and time for spontaneity built into your weekends. If your work week is fast-paced and full of people and deadlines, seek peace and solitude during your days off. Feel as if you aren?t accomplishing anything at work? Tackle a job on the weekend which you can finish to your satisfaction."
"Worry about the pennies and the dollars will take care of themselves." That's another way of saying: take care of the todays as best you can and the yesterdays and the tomorrows will take care of themselves."
"Do one thing at a time. When you are with someone, be with that person and with no one or nothing else. When you are busy with a project, concentrate on doing that project and forget about everything else you have to do."
"Allow yourself time -: everyday ; for privacy, quiet, and introspection."
"If an especially unpleasant task faces you, do it early in the day and get it over with; then the rest of your day will be free of anxiety."
"Learn to delegate responsibility to capable others."
"Don't forget to take a lunch break. Try to get away from your desk or work area in body and mind, even if it's just for 15 or 20 minutes."
"Forget about counting to 10. Count to 1,000 before doing something or saying anything that could make matters worse."
"Have a forgiving view of events and people. Accept the fact that we live in an imperfect world."
"Have an optimistic view of the world. Believe that most people are doing the best they can."
"Hidup menjadi lebih mudah dan bahagia tanpa tekanan, tapi hidup tanpa tekanan bukanlah kehidupan namanya... !"
ADam Dryx
"Lesung Pipit di Pipi Kanan"
