So I made an update to the post that went up yesterday morning saying I'd gotten an email from The Douche Lord late yesterday afternoon. Here is what has transpired since then... I'm done. I'm over it.
Him: Did I miss something? My cell phone is down until Thursday I sent you a message with my work cell and never heard from you. If you don't want to talk to me anymore just let me know please.
Me: Are you serious? I never got your message. I thought you didn't want to talk to me anymore...
Him: Very serious. My phone has been off since last thursday and I sent a message to people on here that didn't have my work cell and you were the only one I didn't hear from. :(
Me: blah blah blah (that's not what I said, but it's irrelevant)
Him: Well I sent that message late afternoon Thursday didn't hear from ya, no big deal. Didn't hear from you at all didn't know if I should take that as a hint or what.
There were a few emails in here where he gave me his work number, I told him I'd call him when I got in the car, he said to wait and he'd call me later. He sent one later saying he was putting his kids to bed and I was expecting him to call me after that. No call. Big surprise.
Me: I'm guessing you fell asleep or something. You can call me in the morning if you want, or just email me or whatever. I just want you to know that I really do like you and I think we have, or at least had, a pretty good connection. If you're still interested, I think we need to talk about a few things to clear the air.
Talk to you soon,
Erica
Him: The phone thing pissed me off T-mobile are a bunch of dicks. I have never been late before. I don't know, I sent you that message and I didn't hear anything from you thru any sort of media, email,facebook etc.. I do like you too but the last few days I have really been coming to the conclusion I really don't want to date anyone
Me: Like I said before, I didn't get anything from you letting me know your phone wasn't working, and after I sent you those texts on Friday, I took it as a hint. I think there's just been a major break in communication. You seem like you've been pulling away the last few weeks anyway. If you're not interested in seeing me anymore, that's fine, but just let me know. I don't want to play games.
Him: I don't wanna play games either . It has nothing to do with you. Your great and I do like you. I just don't think I'm in a place right now where I want to date. I hope you understand what Iam trying to say.
I haven't responded and don't plan to.
So now, I'm heartbroken one more time after getting my hopes up last night. What a fucker. To top it all off, I got back on to Plenty of Fish to make my profile active again and guess what, he's online! Doesn't want to date anyone right now, huh? Right.
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Another update: I got another email from him after I posted this. Apparently he's been reading my blog.
Him: "douche lord" for being honest. It was YOU that didn't contact me . Thank You for helping me realize I made a great decision in this instance.
Me: I'm happy you see it that way.
So here's the thing... I feel like he's turning this all around to make me look like the bad guy. I never received any communication from him. I made that painfully clear in more than one email yesterday. I think what happened was that he saw the post, decided to email me and see what was going on, and THEN tell me that he's not interested. I don't get it. I'm so over it!